Who Do YOU THINK You Are?

Yes… Who do YOU THINK You are?

Interesting question ay? Just, dare to follow me a moment. Take an inventory of all that you have going on around you. Because everything is relational. Everything.

EV_ERY_THING.

From where we work, who we work with, our family, friends, acquaintances, people in political office, lovers, cashiers at the checkout, the person driving next to you in traffic… Everything is relational.

There is a reason your world contains the people it does. All relationships, even those that seem difficult, are offerings from your soul to help you find blocks, gifts, and new directions that you might not discover alone. Hopefully, the people in your life are trustworthy, life-giving, faithful, affectionate, thoughtful persons. They want what is best for you and contribute to helping create your best life by encouraging you, engaging you, inspiring you, uplifting you and helping you develop confidence. They are adaptable, communicative, and productive and there to gift joy.

On the other hand, you could be bounded by wounded victims, leeches who are self-involved, blaming punishers, withholding non-communicators, negative speech givers, passive and aggressive dominators that are manipulative. Some people might share interests and affirm your talents, while others help embolden your values. Difficult relationships exist to help free you from unhealthy feeling habits. And regardless, relationships are the catalyst to help you learn your life lessons. I have been on a life journey of recognizing that relationships are a path to transformation. I now know that my relationships help me see myself more clearly, both the good and the bad. Whether your relationships are flowing with perfect harmony or are emotionally upsetting, it is always because the other person has a frequency pattern similar to yours. This fact has been a difficult notion for me to come to terms with - From family to friends, my dissolved marriage and everything in between. I have taken the time to own the many aspects in order to receive healing and understand what occurred – and how it has fostered a hostility and resentment within me.

Relationships are so elemental because the effects of love and fear are instantaneously transmitted back to you. It allows one to examine what brings more soul into your life and what doesn’t. And I will tell you what doesn’t in mine… Affairs, Deceit, Manipulation, Lies, Abandonment, Rejection, Dishonor… Those who populate your world frequency-match with you. Rather its harmonious or emotionally upsetting. If you just take the time to consider those that are in your world, you might be able to see the themes they represent that give clues to what the souls want you BOTH to pay attention to. I have learned that if one notices something, it's relevant for both. Both your casual and intimate relationships contain information about how you’re growing and healing and they can teach you how to serve others and work in helping and healing professions in a more effective way.

Your tribe, your people, your friends, your family, your neighbors, your fellow human - are hurting and require healing. People within your structure need empathy and compassion. Everything is a reflection... Everything is in relation to you... “Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone – we find it with another.” – Thomas Merton So for what is happening in the world… the wars, the famine, the crime, the pain, the loss, the stolen children/people, the hate, the fear… all we are meant to do is love because what we are is love.

When we forget that, we lose ourselves and this offers a breeding ground of fear and hate that produces a grime that brings agony. It does not have to be this way.

You are light. You are darkness. You are relevant. You are significant. You are seen. You are known. You are love. You are everything holy and right in this world. You just have to decide to choose to be selfless and act with accountability and integrity.

Who will you decide to be? Who do YOU think YOU are?